The importance of a firm handshake

The importance of a firm handshake

You might be thinking, "What's the big deal about a handshake?" Well, as it turns out, there's more to it than meets the eye. From its history to the importance of nailing the technique, we've got you covered.

A Brief History of the Handshake

The act of shaking hands has a history that stretches even long than Tracy's career at A Current Affair. While it's tough to pinpoint exactly when and where the handshake originated, it's clear that this form of greeting has been around for centuries. The handshake definitely dates back to ancient Greece, where it was a symbol of peace. By extending an open hand, it showed that neither party was concealing a weapon.

Medieval Europe: Fast forward to medieval Europe, and the handshake evolved into a way to seal deals. Men would clasp hands to confirm their agreement, often accompanied by a hearty slap on the back, or tap on the arse, for good measure.

Modern Transformation: As we moved into the 20th century, the handshake became a standard form of greeting and sign of respect among men, not just in business but in everyday life.

The Aussie Way of Handshaking

Aussie's are known for their easygoing nature, and that extends to their handshakes too. In Australia, a firm handshake is a sign of confidence and respect. However, remember not to go overboard. You're not trying to win an arm-wrestling contest!

Maintain Eye Contact: When shaking hands, it's essential to maintain eye contact. This simple act demonstrates sincerity and shows that you're fully engaged in the interaction.

Keep It Short and Sweet: Aussies prefer a quick, straightforward handshake. A good rule of thumb is to keep it between two to three seconds. No need to hold on for dear life!

The Importance of Technique

Believe it or not, there's a science to the perfect handshake. Studies have shown that a good handshake can leave a lasting impression. Researchers have found that people judge others based on the warmth and strength of their handshake. Here's why technique matters:

First Impressions Count: In a study published in the Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience, it was revealed that the brain forms judgments about a person's character and social traits within milliseconds of a handshake.

The Confidence Factor: A firm, confident handshake exudes, well, confidence! It's a non-verbal way to convey that you're self-assured and ready to take on the world.

Building Trust: Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship, and a good handshake can help build that trust. Research conducted at the University of Alabama found that a proper handshake increases the likelihood of cooperation and trust between individuals.

So, there you have it – the history of the handshake, the Aussie way of doing it, and why nailing the technique is crucial. Whether you're sealing a business deal, meeting someone for the first time, or just catching up with a mate, remember that a good handshake says something about you. Good luck boy!

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